The Funeral Rite

The family forest. Each family has its own grave site. A tree is planted on the body or with the cremated ashes, so the tree absorbs part of the person. Over generations the grave site becomes a forest of living things, where the family gathers, plays, relaxes and contemplates life.

The ancestor stone. When someone dies, a stone object is made to represent them, similar to a personal kami. Descendants keep these representations near them to invoke the spirit of their ancestors. For example, a gymnast's descendant training in gymnastics keeps that ancestor's stone close, as a reminder that the ability is in their DNA and within their reach. Multiple representations can exist, and each person may keep any number for different abilities and traits. They also keep our heritage and ancestors remembered.

The record of life. A list of each person's key attributes and notable events is recorded, kept both in searchable digital storage and as a written copy in the grave site building.

Ancestor day. Every year on 16 January, KOAR honours its ancestors.